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Is there deep friendship between men and women?

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ne day, When I was listening to music Lucky-Jason Mraz, A question arised. Is there deep friendship between men and women? 'Lucky' says the man and women who were the best friend fall in love with each other. I believed there is no friendship between men and women. As the lyrics of Lucky, I thought they must fall in love. But while thinking of relationship of men and women, I gradually started believing they could be friend. If there is deep and long friendship between men and women, I would like to divide that relationship into three parts.
  First, friendship can advance in love. 'Lucky' is example of this. This case could take a lot of time to their own feelings for each other. And I think this kind of love can make more harder and deeper relationship than love that you fall in easily. Because they have shared joy, sadness, advice, worry etc. before, so they know well about each other, understand But there is also bad ending.

Second, I don't think every friend relationship is not formed by real friendship. Not every friend becomes the couple. Maybe one is secretly in love with the other. Let's suppose that woman loves man. Maybe woman is afraid of telling her own feeling to man. Because man might feel uncomfortable. I'm going to talk about one example of my high school girl friend. She had a close boy friend. They played tricks each other, studied together and talked a lot of things. She was gradually beginning to see him not as a friend but as a man. But she could not tell her feeling to him easily. But she tried to be brave, and finally she confessed her feeling.
Unfortunately he started avoiding her and they drifted apart. She was just friend to him. At last thing is just friend. Like I mentioned above, no all friends become a couple and it is general. Women's world are so complicated and sensitive, but men are simple and logical. So I think the friend of opposite sex could give different joy and advice of another view compared to same sex friend. 
  While dividing into three parts, I concluded that the friendship between men and women exists. But it has a difference how they maintain their relationship. Although friendship could be changed to love or grow apart, the memories which they shared as a friend don't changed. Friendship will exist forever because there is a true that they have memories. Whatever the feelings changes after, it is not changed.

 

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Is There a Deep Friendship Between Men and Women?

  One day, When I was listening to music, "Lucky" by Jason Mraz, A question arose. Is there a deep friendship between men and women? "Lucky" says that men and women who are the best friends fall in love with each other. I believed there was no friendship between men and women. From the lyrics of Lucky, I thought men and women who are friends should fall in love. However while thinking of relationships between men and women, I gradually started believing they could be friends. If there is a deep and long friendship between a man and a woman, I would like to divide that relationship into three parts.
  First, friendship can advance love. "Lucky" is an example of this. In this case, the two people take a lot of time to realize their own feelings for each other. In addition I think this kind of love can make a stronger and deeper relationship than love that happens quickly. Because they had shared joy, sadness, advice, worry etc. before, they know about each other well. However there are also possible bad endings. Second, I think every relationship is not formed by a real friendship. Not every friend becomes a couple. Maybe one is secretly in love with the other. Let's suppose that a woman loves a man. Maybe the woman is afraid of telling her feelings to him because the man might feel uncomfortable. I'm going to talk about one example about my high school girl friend. She had a close male friend. They played tricks on each other, studied together, and talked about a lot of things. She was gradually beginning to see him not as a friend but as a man. However she could not tell her feelings to him easily. So she tried to be brave, and finally she confessed her feelings. Unfortunately, he started avoiding her and they drifted apart. She was just a friend to him. Like I mentioned above, not all friends don't always become a couple. Women's mind are so complicated and sensitive, but men are simple and logical. So I think a friend of the opposite sex could give different joy and advice than one of the same sex.
  While dividing into three parts, I concluded that friendship between men and women exists. But it is different how they maintain their relationships. Although friendship can change to love or grow apart, the memories which they shared as friends don't changed. Friendship will exist forever because they will always have memories. Whatever the feelings changes after, the memories are not changed. 

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